Having clear boundaries
is essential to a healthy, balanced lifestyle. A boundary is a personal
property line that marks those things for which we are responsible. In
other words, boundaries define who we are and who we are not. Boundaries
impact all areas of our lives:. Physical boundaries help us determine
who may touch us and under what circumstances. Mental boundaries give us
the freedom to have our own thoughts and opinions. Emotional boundaries
help us to deal with our own emotions and disengage from the harmful,
manipulative emotions of others. Spiritual boundaries help us to
distinguish God's will from our own and give us renewed awe for our
Creator. Often, Christians focus so much on being loving and unselfish
that they forget their own limits and limitations. When confronted with
their lack of boundaries, they ask: Can I set limits and still be a
loving person? What are legitimate boundaries? What if someone is upset
or hurt by my boundaries? How do I answer someone who wants my time,
love, energy or money? Aren't boundaries selfish? Why do I feel guilty
or afraid when I consider setting boundaries?
First line:
"The alarm jangled."
Good book on setting boundaries in all areas of your life, from work to children to yourself. Many insightful thoughts and ideas and stories.
This book is put out by a Christian ministry so there are many references to scriptures and God.
Rating: PG
3 1/2 STARS
No comments:
Post a Comment